but aside from that we always just feel good every year about remembering the damn date. it's possible that we rank high on the world's list of anti-romantics so maybe that's part of it, or maybe we're just realistic and people who do spend hundreds of dollars to remember one day (where they spent thousands of dollars) are the silly ones.
so, a poll. kinda for married couples but I put an asterisk by marriage because I realize there are lots of fully legitimate very committed relationships that are not legally married, etc. if that's you then just pick a date.
how long have you been married*?
less than one year
what do you do for anniversaries?
wish each other happy anniversary
major date - vacation, trip out of town, new experience etc
give each other gifts
nothing. who can remember these dang things?
what anniversaries do you celebrate?
first time we met
start of relationship