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Babycenter used to have this feature where you could push your blog posts over there, so that's why there's a babycenter "version" of a lot of my livejournal entries, including this 2010 one about Josie's first christmas. The reason that one always sticks in my head is that I actually got a comment over there criticizing me for not buying presents for my infant...

You didn't buy your child presents for Christmas? You assumed the grandparents would? That doesn't seem right... Wether or not my childrens grandparents buy them anything, wouldn't stop me from buying my children something,anything... You opened gifts that you and ur husband bought for each other? Yet neither of you thought to buy for the child?...okk strange... I guess things just work differently in ur household...


I really hope she missed the fact that my "child" was six months old, the entry did state that she was still in a high chair and the website is babycenter, but who knows. I was a little confused, talked to some people, found out that a lot of people do try to make their babies' first christmas "special" by loading them up with presents. huh? they're babies! they just want you to smile at them, their memories last 20 minutes!

Luckily I got some validation from STFU Parents, a site I approve of in all ways. They started a series of posts to eye-roll at parents who buy their kids way too much stuff, then turn to facebook to post a picture of the "haul" all together in a way where you can't even find the baby.

Anyway it's Olive's first Christmas and you know what? I still feel very secure in my decision to buy nothing for my baby.

I approve of this mommyish post: Perfect Gifts for Babies Who Don't Know It's Christmas. Wrap up a box of cheerios... it's even box-shaped so it's easier to wrap!

We give gifts because it makes the recipient happy, and because we enjoy getting new things for our loved ones but can't do it all the time for random reasons, there are holidays for this.

Now don't get me totally wrong, Olive will get a present from us. When Josie (age 3) gets her packages from santa I want her to understand that santa visits all the kids, so there's a box for Olive. But guess what's in it... I went down to the basement, pulled out one of Josie's baby toys she hasn't seen in years, and wrapped it up. It's a little train with blocks that go on it that I'm pretty sure we got from Ms. A for Josie's first Christmas or birthday, I don't remember which. It's a cute and I think our friends would be happy we're reusing it to mean something to Olive. Or they'd be amazed that we kept the pieces together. Whatever, it's a great first Christmas present and is costing me nothing and I didn't support the marketing craze that tells us everything must be made new, new, new to be special in America. I like it.

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sandokai
Dec. 24th, 2013 03:16 pm (UTC)
We didn't get our 3 month old anything either. LOL Well we should probably get her a stocking for next year. It seems silly to me to spend money on someone who doesn't even know it's a holiday when she really doesn't need anything (has plenty of all kinds of clothes, toys, etc.)

Our 2.5 year old we got about 8 things for.

okoshun
Dec. 24th, 2013 03:31 pm (UTC)
That makes total sense to me. People go a bit crazy.

A friend had a full circus/bouncy castle and the lot for her 1 year olds party. They spent upwards of $10k on the event!
browngirl
Dec. 24th, 2013 03:55 pm (UTC)
Man, people online will criticize others' parenting over anything. Bleh.

Your prospective Christmas sounds jolly indeed. :)
aliki
Dec. 24th, 2013 05:01 pm (UTC)
Erika's 3 years old, and some of her Christmas "presents" include a winter snowsuit and second-hand Little People toys from a colleague whose daughter is 10 and has outgrown them.

Do kids even know if their toys are new at this age?
easter
Dec. 24th, 2013 05:28 pm (UTC)
That makes total sense.
ali_highland
Dec. 25th, 2013 07:20 am (UTC)
About the same here, No 3 is getting some teething toys, the twins also each picked one of their old baby toys to give to him
aryanhwy
Dec. 26th, 2013 10:41 am (UTC)
Gwen was 7 weeks old her first Christmas. We sure as heck didn't get her anything! Her grandparents loaded us up on clothing, it was awesome, I didn't have to shop for more than onesies or socks for nearly a year.
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